I was glad to read this and am looking forward to the next two parts:
I think it is our job as people of love to uplift the marginalized and to be more than fair.
If we are honest we know that we hold the power. We (adoptive parents)
have the passports and the money and the ability to be connected and jet
around the world. With great power comes great responsibility. We made a
decision many years back that no matter how intimidated we might be by
entering into an open adoption relationship, it was the correct thing to
do and a way we could tip the scales of injustice back the other way...
...If you are considering a reunion in the immediate or distant future, let
me assure you, sitting in an awkward situation speaking choppy language
to folks that you don't really know how to relate to never killed anyone.
And the whole post here: www.livesayhaiti.com/2014/03/open-international-adoption-is-that.html